| Life Patterns Which Get in Your Way |
| Written by Dr. Michael J. Duckett |
| Sunday, 07 February 2010 08:09 |
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Each of us lives from particular patterns in life. We sleep in the same spot on the bed, eat the same meals weekly, drink from the same cup, go to sleep and get up at approximately the same time. These patterns go on and on.
Each of us lives from particular patterns in life. We sleep in the same spot on the bed, eat the same meals weekly, drink from the same cup, go to sleep and get up at approximately the same time. These patterns go on and on. The patterns and stress are very similar, although some of the situations are different. A person with money difficulties, for example, lives a life pattern of money difficulties. Since the outcomes of our lives are based upon the results of our patterns, if people want something different to occur in life, they need to change their patterns. It may seem that life, finances, relationships, and health are completely out of your control, the reality is, your patterns will predetermine what you can expect. The individual needs to change the money pattern if they want to improve their finances. This change will be from producing financial strain to producing financial abundance. Also, if a person wants to improve health, they need to change the health pattern from producing dis-ease to one of producing vibrancy and health. If someone has the desire to improve or start a relationship, this person needs to change the love pattern from producing self centered love to producing harmony with another. What patterns are you producing in life? Are these patterns in line with what you want or are they producing more of what you don't want? As I mentioned, most people want one thing but they are living their lives with contradicting patterns to their desire. When you identify what you want, you can change your patterns to align with your desire. You will be amazed at how quickly your desires will manifest when you make the necessary corrections to our life patterns. If you don't change the way you're doing things, you'll only produce more of what you already got up to this point in life. That is the "secret" that any successful person will gladly share with you. Most people will live in a pattern of misery rather than make necessary changes to create their dream life. Change is not comfortable. When we want to change something, it takes self discipline. To say, "I am no longer living my life or handling my personal matters that way" is self discipline. This is what many people are seeking, but avoid implementing. They avoid the implementation process of change by only reading books, attending seminars, and make good intentions. By answering the following is a good exercise to sink this point deep into your Mental Coding: 1. What do you want in life right now? 2. What changes would be required of you to make this happen? 3. Are you willing to "pay the price" and make these life pattern changes? 4. When will you make these changes? Be honest and realistic with yourself here. Only make this statement if you're willing to back it up once-and-for-all. As the famous German actor, Stefan Rudolph says it perfectly, "Once failure leads to change...change will then lead toward success." Human beings never like to lose anything. As you change, refuse to look at your changes as losing anything. Instead, concentrate on the things you are gaining. When a person goes on a diet to lose weight, the struggle is much harder than a person who changes patterns to gain better health. Now you're one step closer to upgrading your life to the next level. Sincerely, Dr. Michael J. Duckett About the Author: Looking to find the best deal on wealth relationships, then visit www.upgradinglife.com to find the best advice on overcoming fear for you. |